Showing posts with label Celebrate life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Celebrate life. Show all posts

Saturday, October 22, 2016

What Matters Most in Life


I am no philosopher and I cannot offer you the right answer about the essence of living our life. For others, an essence of our existence means finding our true purpose. Why does it matter to find our purpose?
There are different responses on human's true purpose. Some say we can only find it through God, others offer meditation to find inner peace and purpose, and some offers death as our final purpose.

Purpose, by my own definition, is the missing puzzle that we feel; the purpose is an action of utilizing our talents for the welfare of others; Realization of our inner knowledge.
The purpose is something that we yearn for to fill the emptiness that we feel or when we are astray. Purpose gives us a sense of direction and drives to continue living our lives, for purpose equates essence of life. Some people exist without it, and so they find themselves in confusion, lack of drive, and unhappiness. Some have almost everything in their lives, fame, money, and titles but no sense of purpose. For purpose is not seen in earthly possession rather it is the pursuit of passion in doing activities in life, using your talents, and realized knowledge.
Now, why does it matter to know our purpose? It matters for it gives us a sense of meaning and a sense of happiness that, at least, we did something rightful for ourselves as well as for others in a very short period of time while we were alive.
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Wednesday, December 30, 2015

MY UNEXPECTED JOURNEY

Beautiful, isn't it?

Find me

I felt like I am more alive today. I was happier when I stepped on the grounds of Mall of Asia. It was never the same happiness that I feel when I visitied it a gew months back. I guess, enjoying some moments are largely affected by those people who accompanied me at that moment.

I was with my girlfriend and my girlfriend's12-year old sister when we get our kit and stroll the mall. Haha. I was really happy being around with them but I knew that my girlfriend was a little bothered about what happened earlier this morning.

Along our way to the mall, her sister vomitted a lot (as in 3 plastic bag of brown barf full, oops sorry for inducing that image on your head!) on aircon van. I saw her panic countenance and saw in her eyes that she was troubled about what happened. Anyway, she cleaned it up and no one complained since we anticipated that incident.

When we were in a clothing store, to buy some new pants for her sister, she apologized to me. Of course, I said that she has nothing to worry about and am glad to be with them. It was true. They made me happy today in spite of it. I believe it was just normal for her sister to be that way since she was not used to going long trips. I am glad because I became part of their first stroll on that mall and it was an amazing experience having them as my companion. *especially the barfing incident that made it marked my head, I anticipated that but I never thought it will be worst hahaha*

In fact, I appreciate small things earlier. I love walking with them, getting lost there, eating a lot of food, and watching the sun by the bay. I never felt this jovial feeling when I am not with them. 

I am hoping for more moments with them. :) I am prepared and am looking forward to have a fruitful year in 2016! 

P.S. I am really tired today and I didn't mentioned to my girlfriend that I have my allergies in my whole body. It was the reason why my feet were aching. I just didn't want to destroy the moment. Hahaha. I took my antihistamine medicine now, I am alright.

Signing off,


Sito Longges


Yes, let's move forward!


Sunday, December 27, 2015

MY NIGHT OF WINING



Occasionally, I drink wine. We celebrated tonight the arrival of my sister from Japan. She visits us every two years. She bought me wine tonight because she knew that I don't like beers. Of course, I will not decline this kind of offer. I need a little alcohol for my heart, right?

Oh yeah. I felt tipsy and it felt so good. I miss this feeling. :D

Good night fellas! I hope you enjoy your December vacation!

Sito Longges